Introduction

A lot of people ask me: what does sex with real male doll actually feel like? Is it cold and emotionless, or can it really bring satisfaction close to being with a real person?

I have to be honest—before buying my first male sex doll, I was full of doubts. As a gay man, I have, of course, fantasized about being with the perfect man: broad chest, hard penis, always willing to hold me close. But in reality, finding a partner who matches all your fantasies perfectly is not easy. That’s when I started looking at gay sex dolls, wondering if they could deliver that “ideal” experience.

Today, I want to share my complete experience with a male sex doll in this long article. If you’re hesitating, I hope it helps you understand what the experience is really like.

First Time with a Male Sex Doll

The first time I opened the package, I was nervous. I was afraid I’d feel odd, or that it would be laughably artificial. But the moment I gazed at him, all of those thoughts disappeared.

The skin was smooth, of TPE, and had an even texture with some small pores. His chest was broad, with well-defined abdominal muscles and muscular arms. When I touched him, the elasticity and firmness made him seem very real—certainly not plastic in any sense.

The largest surprise, however, was his penis. It was erect, like a real erection, with veins and texture to it. And I thought, suddenly: this is not a toy anymore—it could actually be a companion that I can play with at any time. 

Weight and Presence

Everyone forgets one thing: the weight of a sex doll for a man. My doll weighs about 35 kg (77 lbs). It is not like holding something light and inflatable—it is like holding a human being.

When I placed him on the bed, his weight naturally pressed down, making his posture look natural. Later, when I lay next to him and hugged him, it really felt like there was a man in my arms.

This “presence” was the biggest surprise for me. It helped me relax mentally and accept that sex with real male doll isn’t a cold experience—it’s a tangible, intimate interaction.

Experience as the Top

The first time I tried, I played the top.

I applied lube inside his opening and slowly entered him. The tightness and wrap-around feeling were much stronger than I expected. The combination of friction and smoothness felt very realistic.

I started with missionary position, looking at his chest and face as I penetrated him, feeling the stable depth. Then I switched to doggy style, with him leaning on the bed and his hips raised. This position fully immersed me—the visual and tactile sensations were very close to being with a real man.

As the top, the biggest advantage of a male sex doll is that he never goes soft. I could change positions freely and experiment with different rhythms without worrying about interruptions. The sense of complete control was very freeing.

Experience as the Bottom 

A few days later, I decided to try being the bottom. I sat him on the edge of the bed and slowly positioned myself on his penis.

I have to say, the heating function completely erased any reminder that this was a doll. The warmth when I entered him gave me goosebumps—it really felt like being penetrated by a real man.

I first tried regular cowgirl, facing him, and could look at his chest and face—very immersive. Then I tried reverse cowgirl, with my back to him, which gave me a more relaxed rhythm. Throughout the experience, I could control depth and speed freely, without worrying about him going soft.

For the bottom, the biggest advantage of gay sex with sex doll is stability and control. You can go fast or slow, shallow or deep, all entirely at your own pace.

Why It Feels So Real

I’ve identified a few reasons:

1. Touch and Detail
   • TPE and silicone materials give the skin elasticity, soft yet slightly firm.
   • The penis’s firmness and texture are very close to a real erection, making penetration feel natural.
2. Weight and Presence
   • 30–50 kg (66–110 lbs) gives the sensation of a man actually being there.
   • Hugging him or having him press against you feels realistic.
3. Heating Function
   • Body temperature is around 36–38°C (96.8–100.4°F), similar to human warmth.
   • Whether hugging or having sex, the heat makes the experience far more immersive.
4. Visual Realism
   • Muscles, chest, arms, and penis details make the fantasy concrete.

Combined, these elements let me mentally and physically immerse myself, fully experiencing sex with real male doll.

Psychological and Emotional Benefits

Many people may think being with a doll is only about physical pleasure. But I found that gay sex dolls provide more than that—they also give emotional satisfaction.

• He never refuses or interrupts.
• I can follow my fantasies completely, without worrying about him.
• Sometimes, hugging him to sleep gives me a real sense of comfort—I no longer feel alone on lonely nights.

This emotional aspect is surprisingly real and meaningful.

Real User Story

To give you a better sense, here’s a real story I saw on a forum:

“I’m 29, gay, and single for many years. When I first bought my male sex doll, I had doubts and thought I might not use it. But the first time I tried, it completely changed my mind. As the bottom, sitting on his penis, the warmth and fullness completely immersed me. As the top, I loved missionary, looking at his realistic body and face, and really felt like I was interacting with a partner. Now I feel that he’s not just a toy—he’s a stable bed companion that satisfies me and helps me relax.”

Reading this made me even more convinced that gay sex with sex doll is a worthwhile experience.

Differences from a Real Partner

Of course, compared to a real man, a doll has some differences:

• He won’t respond actively—no breathing changes, no moaning.
• No emotional interaction.

But that’s also what makes male sex doll unique:

• He never refuses.
• The penis stays firm at all times.
• You have full control of the entire experience, without worrying about the partner’s fatigue or mood.

For many, this freedom and stability is actually liberating.

Conclusion

After experiencing it myself, I can say with confidence: sex with real male doll isn’t cold or mechanical—it’s a very realistic intimate experience.

• As the top, you enjoy stable, tight penetration.
• As the bottom, you can immerse yourself in warmth and fullness.
• Combined with the weight, material, and heating function, the overall feel is almost real-life.

For me, it’s more than just a toy—it satisfies my desires and provides warmth and companionship. If you’re considering trying a male sex doll, don’t be afraid or hesitant. It can be a truly realistic and rewarding addition to your fantasies.