Now, the sex dolls are more realistic and fun, and they are also very suitable for experimenting with some forms of play that you might not experiment with otherwise, i.e., ejaculation control, edging orgasm, and even suffocation. You can slowly do it by yourself, and you need not fear being embarrassed or having any safety issues. This article is going to guide you on how to play with dolls, how to play happily, and how to save them from problems.

1. How to play ejaculation control?

“Ejaculation control” is to willingly restrain yourself when you are about to ejaculate, delay orgasm, and prolong endurance and intensity of pleasure. Such training per se is very well adapted to be practiced in conjunction with sex dolls, since no one disturbs you, you regulate the rhythm yourself, and you can practice in any manner desired.

▸ First set the posture and calm yourself

Put yourself in a quiet and comfortable position and get the doll’s posture adjusted first. You may use pillows and cushions to get the proper angle and comfortable position for supporting your body.

Most of the dolls these days have extremely loose skeletons, and you can try missionary positions, women on top, doggy style, riding and others, with a very high degree of mobility. It is advised to reduce the movement and even the rhythm at first, and get used to the intensity of the stimulation first.

▸ Make sure that you apply enough lubrication

Lubrication not only enhances comfort, but also reduces the stimulation caused by friction, and facilitates control over time. Water-soluble lubricants should be used because they are easier to remove and safer.

▸ Use “pause” and rhythm variation to delay pleasure

When you feel you are approaching the climax point, halt the activity immediately, or switch to slow stroking of the penis using your hands to release the pressure. Rest for some time and continue, always extending the process. Repeat this several times, the climax will be more intense, and the pleasure will be doubled.

2. How do you play edge climax?

“Edge climax” is a higher-level means of managing ejaculation. Briefly, it is to get closer to the climax repeatedly without allowing yourself to ejaculate, repeatedly getting close and then backing off, building pleasure, and the final moment will have a great feeling of release.

▸ Slow in and out, feel the rhythm

Running with top speed in the beginning can easily ruin the rhythm. It is recommended to use the method of “shallow entry + slow movement + pause” for edge climax. Pause at the moment of ejaculation, control your breathing, change movements or stroke with hands to control it.

You can even practice the rhythm by music so that body and mind harmonize.

▸ Alternate different sensory stimulations

You can try inserting a heating rod to heat the hole, so the temperature inside the doll is close to body temperature and the stimulation becomes more natural. Some high-end dolls come equipped with automated heating, vibration or built-in suction. They are particularly well-suited for edge climax play and can give you a real feeling of rhythm pulling.

You may also try built-in patterns or clamp-suction inner sleeves to further improve the stimulation difference, allowing it to be easier for you to control the rhythm of climax.

▸ Want a stronger sense of substitution? You can try these additional functions!

The. sex dolls of. today are in no way as simple as reclining peacefully and. “at your mercy.” If you go in for a model with. moaning, sucking. and. electric hip features, then the encounter will actually rise by. several levels, being almost like communicating with a “responsive” person.

For example.

• Moaning function: It creates real moans in time with your actions. You can perform the switch yourself. In order to remain quiet, you can mute it, and turn it on when you want to be stimulating. Before the climax, you can add a soft panting sound into the action, which is also perfect for edge climax play or for ejaculation control gameplay so that it becomes more intolerable and easy to “get into the game.”.
• Sucking function: There are toys with a mouth or private part structure that has adjustable suction, which can replicate real oral sex or suction. Employed together with lubricant, it is as sensitive and arousing as an actual human, most suited for players who enjoy slow tempo and gentle pleasure.
• Electric hip shaking mode: The motorized rhythmic “electric hip” mode can simulate the waist rhythm of an actual person, without hand progression, such that you can let go of your hands and enjoy the pleasure of actively luxuriating. By virtue of the edge climax game, it is really simple to be addicted.

These features not only contribute to the richness of the gameplay, but also bring the experience of reality and immersion much closer. You are no longer “playing with an object”, but performing with a responding partner who moves and sounds, thus you can fully immerse yourself in a whole erotic activity.

3. Creating a BDSM Atmosphere

The mere concept of BDSM isn’t that much “binding” or “spanking,” but creating the entire ambiance and the psychological “power switch.” When you play with living people, there are many problems because of trust and communication, but playing with dolls, you can try various scenes as much as you want without fearing that the other party won’t be accustomed to it.

▸ Start with clothes: Make the role more realistic

Select sexy bondage apparel, like leather suspenders, tight uniforms, maid attire, bondage ropes, etc., and dress them on the dolls to trigger the urge to conquer at once.

• Leather pieces: leather straps, blindfolds, gags, collars, which directly remind human beings of the state of “dominance and submission.”
• Role-playing costumes: maids, nurses, school uniforms, and even two-dimensional style uniforms can trigger various fantasies.
• High heels, stockings: The details matter, as well. Black stockings or high heels can instantly make your immersion complete.

Your stimulation is more acute, and it becomes simpler to sink into it naturally.

▸ Use tools to increase pleasure as “specific”

In BDSM sex play, using some “symbolic control” tools will make the experience feel more “real”:

• Handcuffs/shackles: mend the doll, although it does not move, there is “she can’t move” control.
• Whip/slap stick: lightly pat thighs or buttocks of the doll for visual and auditory stimulation. Do not tear the material, be soft.
• Collar + leash: wear the collar, and then take hold of the leash in order to have “master-servant interaction”, which will stimulate further.
• Gag/blindfold: also one of the methods in which senses are being blocked in BDSM, so “her” is more so being at your beck and call.

These gadgets are first intended for “role-playing” and “obedience/control” situations, which are very ideal for use with dolls, safe and enjoyable.

▸ Blend with suffocation play, stimulation layered

It is possible to blend light suffocation play into the BDSM scene:

Press both sides of the neck softly while “talking” or playing moans in your ears to simulate real interaction.

Adding the “scene” of “she” dressed in leather or handcuffed, the whole scene will be oppressive and controlled.

Note: Suffocation and BDSM may be thrilling, but they have to be built on “sense of control and security”. Do not work violently and do not inadvertently harm the doll frame, especially the neck, wrists, and joints.

If you like, you can also set up some plots as you will, such as: “The slave maid waits for punishment”, “The uniformed boss falls into lust”, “The naughty slave maid gets punished”. Let you indulge in your sex fantasy of the scene, from action to psychology.

4. How do you take care of the doll so that it won’t get more “hurt” the more you play with it?

No matter how exciting the play is, never ever forget to clean and maintain it. Otherwise, not only will it affect the lifespan, but also have hygiene risks.

▸ Clean after use

Wash the whole skin and areas of contact with warm water and neutral cleaning liquid. Clean the inside with a rinser or cleaning stick to facilitate rinsing it clean. Dry and sprinkle some cornstarch (anti-stick powder) to avoid the surface becoming sticky and aged.

▸ Regularly check and repair in time

If there are tiny cracks on TPE dolls, the same can be repaired using special TPE glue, while silicone dolls use food-grade sealant. One must inspect every month, especially the neck, joints, and used holes, often.

▸ Store in a dark, dry, and pressure-proof place

When keeping it, wrap it with cotton cloth and keep it in a dry and ventilated place, not exposed to the sun or in hot temperatures and high humidity. Never put long-term pressure on a certain area of the doll for fear of deforming it.

5. Summary: How to play with sex dolls safely and happily?

Regardless of whether it is playing with ejaculation control, edge orgasm playing, or involving extreme BDSM and suffocation play, sex dolls can give you a personal, safe, and unlimited space to play and experiment.

If you wish to play happily, the secret is three points:

• Rhythm control: Irrespective of the mode of play, incremental progression is most comfortable.
• Safety awareness: moderate intensity and caution awareness can be your best friend for a long time.
• A number of functions enhance the experience: Moaning, sucking, electric hips and other interactive functions are useless, they will provide you with an unprecedented feeling of immersion.

If you lack experience with these methods of playing, you can just start with a combination of “ejaculation control + moaning electric hips”; they will ruin your fantasy of sex dolls.